how to deal success
If I tell you that there is a way in which you are guaranteed to be successful, will you believe it?
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How to deal success :- ‘choose your path’
I tell you a story
There were three people at a place. A river was flowing in front of them. Those three people did not know how to swim. But they had a desire to swim.
One of them thought that if I go into the river and die by drowning, what will happen to me, forget about me, what will happen to my children.Because of his fear it gradually started to seem impossible.Because of that he didn’t have the courage to take action. So that man was afraid of water all his life and he never tried to go into the water and swim.
There was another man like this, After seeing others doing it. He said what’s the big deal in tha. He is just moving his hands and legs.he jumped in the river without thinking anything, he said whatever happens will be seen, first I should go inside. So that man started drowning and he was on the verge of dying, then someone came there and saved him, seeing his defeat, he never tried to win from any failure, he kept using this failure everywhere that what will happen if I fail here as well like that day.
(Sorry to interrupt but many other people were also swimming in that river)
Apart from these two, there was a third man also, he thought that many people are swimming here, they know how to swim then why can’t I. That man goes to talk to those people that how do you know, where did you learn it from.
So they reply that we did not learn swimming from here but we learnt it in the swimming pool, earlier we too were scared like you and then gradually we learnt it, so that third person first goes to the swimming pool and watches, learns, and then he goes to the river and swims.
Thinking without action.
If you just keep thinking without learning anything, without knowing anything. If you keep going on this path, you will get destroyed.
Action without thinking.
If you take action without thinking, without learning anything, just because you think it is easy, then you will be guaranteed to fail.
the middle path between the two.
Whatever field you want to go into, first read books and do some research about that field.lurn about that field. Because in this internet world anyone can say anything.
Real life example :-
What I am telling you now is based on a huge research.
suppose 100 people want to start business then the chances of their not being successful are 90%.Because out of these 100 people 50% will not even start a business. They just keep thinking that I want to do business or due to fear they will not be able to start it.
And those people who have started a business, they start the business directly without learning, without keeping any failure in mind and do not even do any research.
Try to learn anything before starting it.
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Let me tell you one thing about me. Whenever I have a headache I used to take pills. But since I read this book, and whenever I have a headache, I get cured in just 5 to 10 minutes
How to deal success :- ‘what is real learning’
1. Observation:-
If you want to learn anything then you must first observe people who are already working in that field.
I think you are reading everything I have written here but if something else is going on in your mind, then will you be able to learn anything from me?no.You are watching this report but your mind is somewhere else, so will you take it seriously?no.
You will have to observe both those who are failing and those who are succeeding.
2. Understanding:-
After highly observing the people at the top of your field, you will have to understand what those people have done that can be useful to me today, because it is not necessary that all their actions will be useful to us.
3. Apply into your life:-
You should apply whatever actions you think are necessary in small steps of your life, if you do not practice these things then there is no benefit.
When you practice in small steps and get 2 experiences, one good and one bad. When you learn something from both the experiences, that is called learning.
